Quote: Thing is, I could get over all that if he moved a LITTLE to help
if you continue to think this way, you will get nowhere. your forgiveness cannot be based on whether or not he is doing things that befit that forgiveness - you have to forgive solely on the fact that you forgive
in the lord's prayer, jesus taught us to ask for forgiveness of OUR sins and for those that sin against us. he never added - "but only if they do things that shows that they are sorry for what they did, becuase how can you forgive someone if they don't prove they are sorry"
remember, forgiveness is a gift you give YOURSELF
and once you TRULY forgive, no matter what your husband does, things only then can get better
