rachel, it's hard to detach since we are living in the same house, there are regular things that need to be accomplished on a day to day basis
i detached from his DRAMA - i am not affected by his moods, i will NOT take the blame for his indescritions, but by working on my issues that i feel contributed to the downswing of our marriage, i am showing him i am going on with my life
i have become mostly a friend living in the same house, letting him have his space to deal with HIS issues, they are NOT my issues, i have my OWN issues to work on
