Thanks VC, I'll check that out.

It sounds positive to me also, but I just cannot allow myself to think about that too much.

I just have to accept that for now, we are friends, if she wants more in the future, that is up to her, if that time comes, I'll have to look at where I am at that stage.

It is what it is, a disfunctional family that are getting on!!!

Yesterday she called me 10-15 times, all really nice, no conversations about us, future, past, etc, but thats good, there is no pressure.

At the moment I am really relaxed about everything, I'm moving to the new house this week, I am happy being around her and the kids, although I do miss them, and things are just moving along, we have not spoken about the divorce for a long time, yes, we have spoke about the house, and I've signed that to her, but the actual divorce, no??

I don't know if that means anything, but I'm not going to bring it up, as she may have put things on hold, and I don't want to pressure her into anything.

Have a good day guys.