Back home - but for how long?

[In_Shock]

absolutely right --- don't dignify OM. In my sitch, there is OW, and i refuse to even mention anythng about her. I pretend as if she doesn't exist - and in my world, she does not.

I have decided though, like someone said (accuray?) that our DBing efforts arent going to work while there is OP.... If you want to wait it out, then you will have a better chance. I'm trying the waiting out thing right now. IT IS SO HARD. But others have done it succesfully. It's your call. But don't confront. That usually ends with S running for the door asap.