alcoholic H decided he wants D

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Lots to vent about tonight....
H and i started co parenting counceling yesterday, so we can help S14 who is really having a hard time. Got report card last week and it was terrible, and his attitude is not much better.
But in the discussion i found out that last week when H took S to the C appt and told him about "his decision" as he put it, he actually went in alone and told councelor and then left the room and had the councelor tell my S that we were getting divorced. So not only did he not discuss it with me first, he didnt even stick around and tell him himself.....
Obviousely im hoping the co parenting sessions will help...
Who is this man?????.. i do not recognize him at all, he is almost whistling as he walks away from his family....
All i can do is help my son and take care of me...the other 2 are older and seem to be ok, angry but ok..S14 has always been my sesitive one...crys at the sappy movies and commercials with injured animals...he is so sad...
I need to pull it together for him...