One other thing...went upstairs and had to come back down! One of the biggest mistakes I made was to confront as soon as I found out. Do not confront tonight -- sleep on it, plan it out if you plan to confront at all. You have to do it from a place of normalizing what happened, and you have to do it without scolding, criticizing, or blaming. If you want the truth, you need to pave the road for the truth to come out.

--Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015