POSITIVES

1) he called me last night on his way home from charlotte with the boys to ask me what the final decision was on the whole california trip - so we talked a bit about that - it shows me that he is concerned about my thoughts on it

2) he wanted to know if i would stay up and watch him play his video game some more last night, i told sure!!!

3) discussing finances this morning - he sees how hard i am working on scheduleing things and he printed out a schedule this morning for his work, anytime he does this, things go well for him

4) i got rewarded for NOT snooping! LOL - let me explain, for the past several days - i noticed that hubby was writing a letter using word on his computer, and when i passed by his room he would always hide the letter - oh my mind went crazy with wonder - this morning he printed out the letter and he said - would you go grab that letter for me - i wrote it to such and such and see if it makes sense - whew - i read it and it was a letter directed to a situation that he has been dealing with in his head for the last 45 days - i didn't realize he was going to write this guy with this, so i was relieved and THANKFUL i resisted the urge to SNOOP!!!

WOOHOO

day 5 of operation GET A LIFE and loving every minute of it

kitti