Agree w/ Sun, I remember dating too soon and i was so delicate, and somewhat paranoid, couldnt enjoy the person or the date, i stopped and had quite a bit more fun w/ girlfriends, and without even thinking about it, all of a sudden was ready, knew that if i dated and it didnt work out, that was OK, i was still ok, just not for that person, didnt take it so personally, some became friends even, not everyone is a match for everyone

Then i met my wonderful fiance, it was the right time, wasnt planning on anything serious.. thats what it is, when your ready,, and its different for everyone but for sure, you have to heal yourself and start really love being with yourself before it can work.

Be Happy for this Moment,
This Moment is your Life