Ken..I'm sorry but you are just plain wrong on this. You simply don't let a child go to bed when ever the feel like it...especially a 2 year old. That is setting up for a huge disaster later in life.
It might have worked for you, but most of the experts disagree with you. they say set a schedule and stick to it. You kid will adapt to the schedule. It's been proven time and time again.
I have a 2 year old like LG. I have NEVER had the kind of problems she's having. But I don't let that 2 year old stay up until he starts rubbing his eyes and looks tired. I can't tell you how many times. My little boy has been perky and lively and then we we go to bed he's out within 10 minutes.
Fishoil, vitamins, etc are all the hucksterism to me. What does work a constant schedule and that means no matter WHO does it lila, the routine is mostly the same.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
