untethering

[aeolianchaos]

For my previous thread, you can go here: Not waiting, but still around.

A recap for those who don't want to read:

I'm pretty much done - at least in terms of seeing her as someone I particularly want to be in a relationship with.

I'm accepting that she is exactly who she says she is and that is not a person I find attractive or want to spend time with. At this point, I agree.. we should get a divorce, not because she betrayed me or hurt me, but because I don't really want to create a future with the person she is choosing to be. It is way too far from whatever idealized notion of her that I have clung to.

Painful.. unpleasant.. but perhaps necessary for my growth to continue.