Back home - but for how long?

[NYCPeter]

Well of course there's another man - not sure of the extent but my W has definitely spent her time after she leave's the restaurant with a guy.

She even left her "uniform" there - she takes spare clothing with her to work so she can go out after work.

How do I know this, I snooped on a W's conversation with her friend on FB - I think I'm most insulted because they call him "C-Dawg". You really want to sleep with a guy called "C-Dawg". I'm assuming it's Carlos the guy who texted her in the early morning.

This refers to a night my W came home at 3:30am "Sat didn't end well for me - I think I left my uniform there"

Wife's friend - "Why didn't Sat end well"

W - "It's hard trying to ber more than friends with a crazy person"

WF - "You mean C-Dawg"

W- "I have so much going on in my head. Yes C-Dawg. The one and only. I wish I could move on but something always brings me back".

WF - "Oh I know that song. You will".

W - "I know, I'm better than all this craziness".

I don't know even how to process this information - there's clearly not enough info to confront, but there is definitely something going on.

And yes - I know I shouldn't snoop - but putting all the blame on me when quite clearly she has chosen to break our vows leaves me speechless. I truly believed her when she said there is no-one else.

I think I need a drink.