Barb, I think I knew you as barbie doll...I left here for years and just came back. Some of us left here but stayed in contact. In fact I am still friends with two of them.
I went over to RMM and still with them. I have seen many marriage restored, even after a divorce and the spouse marrying the other person ! So I know it is more than possible, a miracle. But, I can say it is not for the weak.
Recently, I had given up and decided to date online. But, something was telling me it was wrong, so I left the online dating and resumed my journey. It wasn't long after that my spouse came over after not seeing him for 1 1/2 yrs. I also started hearing things; life with the other person wasn't doing so great.
I have 3 daughters. D29, D27, D25.Sad thing is their don't respect their father. And he was so into the other person he forgot to water his plants (girls) He even had a new lady lined up...They are always looking for something and not finding it.