Ken, you offer a lot of really good input, and I very much appreciate it - and what you've said on other posts. But if this upsets you, I'd rather you didn't post (if it's too upsetting) than get angry at me. As a previous mod said, encouragement is helpful and welcome here. If I'm doing something wrong, and can use feedback, specifics and neutral language are helpful to me. Otherwise, I just start to feel defensive b/c I don't know what's coming at me or why. I hope you can understand this. Thank you, though.
