I read a few posts here. Haven't been here for some time. But, I do have "history"; what works, what doesn't. Advice..uhmmm Well, we all have our opinions, but, what is that little voice telling you to do? Long time for me, I have done wrong things, right things and know the difference now. Been through the divorce and seeing him marry the Op. But, I have waited it out and now seeing the other side of this; his regrets. So is it possible to stand after a divorce and marriage to the Op; darn right. Will many wait? Not many. Seen "FireProof" movie?