Starting Over

[KenF]

of course you live your life. why is it all or nothing with you?

but you continuously discuss how you're running everywhere, doing 20 things at once, then complain of being tired. that you dont have the time to get anything done.

of course you're tired, of course things are falling through the cracks. you choose to do too much. and everything suffers. this is your choice.

and doing too much is a technique thats used to prevent themselves from dealing with the things that are hard. cant do the hard stuff because "i'm too busy, i just dont have the time", its a distraction, a procrastination technique


and now its the babysitter saying he's overwhelmed? why not say the truth from the beginning?


and kml, i'm a father, i understand why people put their kids to bed. i'm not an idiot. theres normal sleep schedules, and there unrealistic sleep schedules. i categorize hers as unrealistic. i dont understand her constant need to force the kid to bed when she's obviously not tired. and then complain for months about it. she's doing more damage than good. but blames the xbf for it.

the staying up till 6am is because the xbf locked the kid in the room. the struggle they have putting her to bed, which she has discussed for the entire time she's been here, is because they're forcing the kid to go to bed before she's tired. either its too early, or the kid isnt getting enough exercise during the day.


I'm sorry, once again i made the mistake of posting. too frustrating for me, the changing stories, the feigning of ignorance, again, sorry lilagirl, i dont have patience for this.