the amount of concern you should have is enough to calmly ask what happened. ask, don't accuse. have a discussion.


whats to be achieved by having your daughter on a sleep schedule? its obviously causing issues for all three of you, you've been talking about this for all the months you've been here. If its to give her comfort, its clearly not working.

let her bodily clock tell you when she should go to bed. from your description, the time you chose is too early. thats why she's not going to sleep.

imagine if you were forced to go to be at 7:30 each night. sounds good for the first night, after than you'd toss and turn for hours. this is what you're forcing on her.

if you continue to force her the way you are, you will make her hate bedtime.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".