"I get that he's overwhelmed."

you have a tendency to project YOUR state of mind onto everyone elses.

You are overwhelmed.

and much of this is by choice.

you are choosing to try to do everything all at once: classes, moving, counselling, work, coaching, sales, daughter, sleep training, books, etc etc etc.

but why? i'd guess you're desperately trying to keep yourself from working on the hard stuff. its a method of procrastination.

you'll never do any of that properly if you're trying to do it all at once. everything will suffer. its obvious you cant handle it.

so if you dont want to be vulnerable, tired, its up to you. just cut out all the non-necessities. stop trying to force everything to, to control everything.


"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".