Thanks. I'm more aware of listening. My mom I guess was saying "I'll think about it and we'll have to talk to your father."
But I didn't hear a no. Just some concerns.
At any rate, I just put up an ad for a roommate. I have tons of ads up! I'm trying anything! I really don't see how the roommate sitch would work, but who knows. Maybe it'll be someone who is never home.
She gets up every day at 7:22 (Except after nights like last night). She takes fish oil every day - the nanny wears her out (this kid has classes, gym, library, etc.). She rarely has gluten or dairy - but I will try to avoid more.
Thanks for all the tips.
BTW, what should I think of exBF's behavior with her last night. It's sort of "shelved" in my mind right now. It scared me, quite frankly. My gut was not any more inclined to assist him in getting overnights with her.