blair - once again thank you for the visit to my thread...yes blair, you nailed it with my husbands world being full of absolutes. i haven't thought of that angel in a long time - so thanks for the reminder - after what i just posted on the whole quick and easy thing? nah, i am willing to wait this one out...long term thinking!!!
rachel - oh but when we get that revelation, oh how GOOD it feels to be in control of our OWN lives!!! you are on a roll rachel, keep it up!!!