"It says there is almost no hope of a verbally abusive woman to change and that relationships that suffer from verbal abuse just don't survive"
I don't agree^^^^^with this.
I too was verbally abusive, not always but did it several times. But I also was loving, caring, and giving more often than mean. So I don't think any human can be mean all of the time and I don't agree that one can not change. You are here, that's a change right? This Saturday I was at my club and one of the members was there with OW and his 2 little Ds. I don't know he stich but I observed him being annoyed with OW and rude. So the grass in not greener as your H may make you think. Keep those changes coming show that book and your H that they are wrong. HUGS
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
