What was I an idiot? Of course there's an OM...

[workinghardguy]

You mean like severe depression and binge drinking every weekend? Yeah... we're already there

I think giving her space has helped. She's profoundly sad about our sitch, life, whatever. My greatest concern is when the gig is up this summer. When she has to actually push for a D and when we tell the kids and see the pain and anguish it causes them. That's my greatest fear... that she is going to see all of that and it will cause some type of psychic break for her. But time will tell... there is really little I can do but monitor and hope.