Hey Rick, Interesting about the feeling that you had about something needing changing. Before she left, w and I were talking about how I used to say this all the time. My family is very, very dysfunctional, bros are all active alcoholics or in recovery, both parents alchos, one in recovery, etc, etc, one bro is clinically depressed. I was always the "rock" of the family, stable, employed, the go to guy. But I always had this feeling in the back of my mind that my time was coming, and that something was going to happen that would force me to develop my faith.
Well, little did I know it would be this year,and in this unexpected way. So, Rick, you are not alone in this either, another similarity for us.
My c told me last week that my sp is emotionally locked in age 15-16, which is the age her abuse issues took place. No surprise that your s may be regressing emotionally as this progresses.
Hang in there with the group, if it is anything like mine, the membership fluctuates from week to week, new people pop in all the time.
Hang in there, Gunny
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!