Telemark, Man, this is tough regardless of your frame of mind. I'm sorry to hear about this. No wonder you were posting at 4:30 in the morning.
Yes you did have your contribution. You are also more than willing to own up to it. However, this was not 100% your responsiblity. While her words may imply that, she is one who didn't trust. It may be because of the baggage she carries. You also are not the one who quit. She quit. You are here. She is not. You are taking a healthy path of improving yourself. She is on a very unhealthy path. IMO her actions are very much unjustified.
I'll say it again. I'd rather be you than her. You will come out of this a much better person.
