"She's already told me that if she wanted to hide it from me she would and could.

That^^^^^^^^^is pure manipulation, don't buy it. Like I said it takes lots of energy and the signs will be there. The stats say that 95% of those who attempt/complete are mentally ill at the time of the act. The other 5% we just don't know. Just keep an eye for severe depression, increase alcohol use and or a change to happiness. Hang in there


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden