"She's already told me that if she wanted to hide it from me she would and could.
That^^^^^^^^^is pure manipulation, don't buy it. Like I said it takes lots of energy and the signs will be there. The stats say that 95% of those who attempt/complete are mentally ill at the time of the act. The other 5% we just don't know. Just keep an eye for severe depression, increase alcohol use and or a change to happiness. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”