What was I an idiot? Of course there's an OM...

[workinghardguy]

Thanks Rick... I've watching for the signs. It's still scary, though I don't believe she has gone so far as the plan. The problem is that she's a registered nurse. She knows exactly what to say or not and exactly what people will be looking for. She's already told me that if she wanted to hide it from me she would and could.

While we're still together I have enough access to her that I feel I can make a good effort at monitoring her and supporting her. It's should we split up that I worry. But ultimately these are her choices; I can't feel responsible for them.