That [censored] TM... oddly enough, your W and mine must be sharing a mind link. This is exactly what my W has been saying.

But don't take the onus on you. I interpret it as "I couldn't be honest with you about my feelings, and my security issues prevent me from forming a real bond with anyone."

I look at my W... in her first marriage she says she knew the day she got married she would leave him. Then she had an A and left him. In our marriage she says she needed security and to be taken care of so badly when we met that she fought off her true feelings. Whatever. In the end you couldn't be honest with yourself or me, and for that you will have to answer to yourself and our children.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD