Really enjoyed your thread. The ideas from that book, especially the 20/80 rule, and writing down goals and time frames, which of course ties in with Michele's adivce about setting goals. BTW, what does 'eat that frog' relate to?
I laughed out loud when I read that bit about lookng at your husband and finding him less attractive than you did at first.... I just wrote in my own thread about how I feel I have detached enough to kind of look at H, and us relating, a little bit as if from a grandstand, getting the long view. I don't love him less, but if you are not in a complete thrall, then you can 'take things less personally' and also refrain from finding that ALL/the MAJORITY of your happiness derives from how the R with H is.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
