Leave it alone Cam, nothing good can come of it. By ignoring it you don't a) pursue and thus validate for her that she needs to leave because you can't and b) pull up all that stuff inside of you.

Ignore it... maybe she ends up thinking, why doesn't he care? why isn't he responding? Won't make a big difference but it's the small steps.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD