too much time and distance

[Telemark]

I am recognizing that taking the high road and supporting my W has done little but help her and destroy me.

I know that feeling, AC. But how could we have known how to react to the crapstorm our W's have created? These are the women we chose to love for life, and even as they were dismantling our lives together we still tried to love them and support them in hopes that they would see what awful decisions they were making.

Depression, MLC, self-esteem issues, inherent dishonesty...we did not anticipate any of these conditions when we said "I do." They have turned our wives into strangers, and we have no idea how to relate to them any more.

I think the acronym GAL needs to be changed to GANL - "Get A New Life."