"I'm sad that this is really a lost cause. I'm sad that I will be rejected regardless of what I do."

V...this looks like acceptance to me. And that's a good step. It's a painful, heartbreaking, gut-wrenching step, but it is the one most of us will take sooner or later. I am at the same place; I do not want to accept the end of my marriage, but I have to.

Once we accept the circumstances and know that we did all we could do, but can do no more, we can move forward without the burden of "what if's".


H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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