Cam, I really can empathize with what you are feeling, but it is a myth. Your W, my W, the other WAS's have all divorced us emotionally. They have moved on.

I would not respond at all. Your W has made her intentions very clear.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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