My W texted me today and said she knows I am still fighting for her and our M, but I need to move on and put this past me. She also made a point of saying she couldn't go back as I would always be insecure and living in fear that she would walk out again.
Not sure what to say to that. She is probably right, but I know with time, patience and effort I could get over it and trust her again.
I haven't responded, not sure what to say or do with this one.
Any thoughts or advice would be appreciated.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011