I get the most matches from the Philly, Washington DC, or Metropolitan VA areas...2 or more hours away
Well - that first boyfriend I had after the divorce? The one who was handsome and sexy and loved smart women? He lived an eleven hour drive away!
I would drive up to spend a three day weekend with him once every month or two (he couldn't get away from his restaurant at the time). We'd chat daily online, and he'd love me up so good when I was there, it would last me the month.
It wasn't ideal, but it worked.
Compared to that, a guy only two hours away seems fine - heck, you could spend every weekend together if you wanted! My current boyfriend lives 20 minutes away, but due to work schedules I still only get to see him once every week or two.
... and my current partner lives 3,000km away and I work 2 weeks out of every month abroad. We have maybe 4 days together a month and it is AMAZING.
We talk every day, we e-mail and text a couple of times a day. It's delightful. I wouldn't swap it for the world. We've sustained this for 18 months and it keeps getting better and better. We are currently considering moving to the same state, so at least we could be together when I'm home. I worry that might take some of the magic out of it!
There are no rules any more Antonia. You can make them up as you go.
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
