Hello OTMT,

Thanks for the post.

It's amazing in that movie that while Julia's character is continuing to search for "something" that all her X's have happy lives with families etc.

I have 2 kids so I can't seem to get off the constant roller coaster.

My X asked again for us all to have dinner. This time I finally said no.
My 8 year old daughter always has tears after we all get together.
It's just not worth it for me or my daughter.
For the life of me I don't get why my XW wants us all to get together knowing the hurt it causes. I guess it's her guilt and she figures enough time has passed that we can all be buddies.

Anyway, enough about my X.

Hope you are doing well OTMT !


Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09