I see that you posted all the issues in your relationship. What have you done to eliminate any of them? It seems to me that you both are entrenched in your own stances and nothing gets resolved.
It could be that neither of you are right or wrong, it is a matter of perspective. What can you do to change the dynamics of the relationship? It only takes one person to change and positively affect the other. Have you read the Divorce Remedy by Michele Weiner-Davis? If not, get it asap. In the meantime, read other threads, articles, archives, etc. on this site and keep posting.
I am going to ask you for a couple of favors. Can you copy the stats at the beginning of your post into your signature to make it easier for us to remember you? Also, can you break up your post to make it easier to read? Sorry to be a pain. Just trying to help you out.
There is hope, but it begins with you. Time and patience.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
