Rick, I hope your Divorce Care group was beneficial. It at least sounds like it was.
When I first started this journey, I would've have given anything to be in limbo because my W was on the D express train. Because of that, now I am thankful for being in limbo. I now have more time to work on myself and DB. Hopefully it's the same for you. Take advantage of the gift of time you've been given.
I've posted this to others - maybe God is trying to teach you patience. You definitely don't want to run too fast, and ultimately end up in a worse situation. This is especially true if there is a legitimate shot getting to a better place than you've even been - IF you go at the right pace.