Thanks Val and IS your thoughts means Alot to me. Just got home from my 1st divorce care group. Very religious oriented maybe that is what I needed. They had a speaker talking about being single and haPpy. He talked about the same pain we are going through Which brought tears. There were six of us all at different stages. We had a 10 minute break and talked to two females one stI'll M the other D and her H M OW last week. She said she was very hurt. Tonites group dealt with dealing with a new R after the D so I was not into it. The females asked me about my stick. Told them about my angry outburst one said maybe I said something really bad and hurt W's feelings. No Kidding. I think that the more I shame myself the less llikely I'm to ever get that angry againM. Really I Rather letH crapp roll off my Back.
PS: I was wondering about 25? I hope she is on a much deserved vacation. I miss her 2x4s
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
