Originally Posted By: cat04


We pass onto them all that we have learned. I have watched my S embrace these things much easier than I did. I have watched him integrate them into his person, as he passes through adolescense into adulthood.



Cat,
We sure do pass on what we have learned!!!!

I just had an occassion where my D14 made me a card instead of going to the store and buying one.......I love these BTW.....priceless.

Anyway, here is an excerpt from the the page she wrote me.

.....I know we(D14 & S11) annoy you and fight with you argue, and don't listen but I want you to know that I hear every word you say to me, even though I don't like it, I take it to heart. Your advice has helped me and many others get through the days......

They do learn, and I can say I have seen my D14 use some DB principles herself with her friends and she sees that it works!!!

I am hoping that she will continue to learn and grow so that it does not take some sort of tragedy or great loss to teach her those lessons we all have learned the "hard way".

Hope your trip went well wink

Cheers


Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison