Looking for the silver lining...

[irishblessings]

TG - you sound as though you have a good handle on your boundaries. In hindsight, I don't believe I would have ever left my XH and he engaged in some VERY sick behaviors. In thinking about it - I am very embarrassed by what might appear to be a lack of boundaries. Didn't I respect myself enough - or is it that I was willing to sacrifice my self respect in order to keep our family together.

Hard to admit...