SA,

I know you hurt for your daughter and the pain that her Dad causes her. I am glad you had opportunity to have that time with her and yes those will be the memories that last for her. The pain of her father's actions will fade with time.

As far as your H avoiding you......it would seem normal to me, he is still experiencing the guilt of what he is doing and wants to avoid that. When he sees you he experiences guilt. It is not until they are really alone and free and on their own that they start to move.

Hope YOU are doing well!!!

Cheers

~C


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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison