Thank you for your wisdom sweetie. I agree with everything you've said.
I went with my daughter with a specific goal in mind and that was to make it a memorable day for both she and I, whether her Dad accompanied us or not. I believe I was able to pull that off.
You know what? It wasn't hard because I was as excited as she was and I'm so thankful I got to share that with her. I thought to myself that I felt sorry that H was missing out on it, but again, his choice.
I have a question just out of curiosity. I've noticed that my H avoids me like the plague lately. No, I don't plan to run into him, but I don't hide if I have reason to be some place where he might see me. For example, yesterday, I was mowing the trim when he pulled up on his motorcycle after an outing with D13.
I was mowing around the bushes along the driveway when he saw me. Instead of pulling all the way into my driveway to turn around like he usually does, he immediately turned the bike around and pulled behind the hedges. Seeing me obviously made him uncomfortable. I just smiled to myself and kept on mowing.
Has anyone else had their S avoid them blatantly after being in the tunnel a while? Any ideas why? I thought he'd be used to the sitch by now.
It felt good to care less whether he shuns me or not.