Originally Posted By: totallygutted
As bad as that sounds there comes a point we have to think about these things.


That doesn't sound bad at all. I agree with you.

Originally Posted By: totallygutted
I set my sights on a year, if I can't see any positive results with my relationship within that time I'll have to think of moving on.


However, timelines...really don't serve you well. Instead of an arbitrary 365 days...and when did that timeframe start? Today? several months ago? 350 days ago?

Just go as long as you can...and then a little longer, have no regrets at the end of your rope, because that is what it is...the end of your ability...not a date circled on a calendar.



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