Wife just told me doesn't want to be married

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Sorry forgot something in my last post with everything that is going on, we still have a joint checking account that my check goes into. What should I do with this? Do I contact an attorney and see how much I should give her each week. My feeling this is premature. She still needs time and further counseling.
Her bday is coming up and I already picked up some gifts nothing expensive. Should I just say they are from our kids?
Do I get her flowers for my sons bday or her bday?
My therapist said if it is what I would normally do then proceed. Just not sure. If I go outside the box does it make her think.
Also I have been buying new clothes, going to the gym and yes wore cologne last night when I dropped off my kids.
The peacock effect.