Back home - but for how long?

[BklynMom]

Why not quit drinking? I have quit since about a week after my husband left. It was hard at first, stopping the routine of 1-2 glasses of wine a night but now it's easy. It has also given me so much clarity in my sitch and made it so much easier not to put my foot in my mouth. I think of not drinking as part of my DBing. I have to do everything possible to save my marriage and part of that is not drinking. It has also highlighted my husbands drinking and how much drinking fueling his crisis. I felt so crazy at the beginning because his history of the marriage was so different then mine and through DB and not drinking I feel less crazy & think he is more crazy. Knowing that he is crazy makes it easier for me not to respond to his crazy talk. Like threating divorce but still no papers. Seems like you are on the right path and doing a great job with a crazy wife. Keep it up and maybe try not drinking and see if it makes things easier.