Wife just told me doesn't want to be married

[gunny]

Hello Witz.
Sorry you are here. Good that you are reading the book, I agree wholeheartedly, you want to discourage s from looking at this site, since you already mentioned to her, I would not even mention it again.

My suggestion is to take some time and read through as many of the different stories on this board as possible. Listen to what some of the vets are telling you, they have been in the trenches and have tremendous knowledge and experiences. You might want to consider trying the DB coaching sessions, I did my first one last week, and while it may have been too late for me(dont know yet), they will be able to give you specific steps and strategies to wwork with.
Again, cant stress enough to read, read, read, and post on as many other threads as possible, to get some exposure for your sitch. Good luck, feel free to corespond with me.