I know from friends that my W is going through some of the same things that I am. I know she doesn't sleep well (often only 3 or 4 hours of sleep a night), that she thinks about our sitch all day while at work, and she is unhappy/depressed because of our sitch. While I feel the same as my W, I unfortunately feel much worse because I see it as her doing this to me. While it may seem wrong, I'm glad my W is as unhappy as I am--it gives me a little bit of hope that we may be able to fix our problems and I guess the way I look at it, if you're unhappy being apart and you think that you were unhappy together, then why not try being happy together again? At least then you would have your spouse to lean on to help make us both happy. But then again, maybe I'm just rambling.
Me36, W38 S12, S3 T20, M4 Bomb dropped 8/18/11 Moved out 8/18/11 Filed for D 10/20/11 OM Confirmed 11/5/11