Thanks Gunny I know you know how it feels. The WAS at work came to talk to me and said it has been 3 weeks since she moved into her own apartment with her S2. She said she is no longer stressed, anxious, has lost weight and feels pretty good. She said she found out that her H is abusing pills and that he is not getting any help. She actually looked happy. She also said her H is saying mushy things and she said she can't stand it. I wondered if my W will feel the same if we separate? My W did say when our stich started that it was going to be hard living without me. Interesting when looking at a WAS from the from the outside.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden