I guess I'm saying that at the rate she has drifted off into space, and me practicing 'distancing' (heck, maybe my wife is practicing the same thing?), it seems like it'll take a whole lot to pull us back together; she still sees (and obviously detests) the old me, while I detest the new her. See what I mean?
I've wondered about this a lot lately, what if our spouses have bought the same books and are DB-ing us? My W has recently begun to mirror my actions almost exactly. She was over yesterday to take our son shopping and we both talked almost like she had never left, and was still living here. It felt like they were just going out and would be back for dinner rather than her dropping him at the door and leaving. I'm very confused about this...
