TM I want to save my M just not the old one. I have made many mistakes but it wasn't just my actions. W has been distant for 2 years and I grew resentful. I just was not aware what was happening. Do I want to remain in such a M? I don't know. If she said she wanted to stay in the R. I would have to accept alot of things and be ok with them. That is the confusing part. I know I have lots of working on me to do still. Will continue the work because I don't want to be who I became. I like many others depended on our Ws, M, and R to make us happy. That was a mistake on my part. So if she wanted to stay I would have to be very sure that I will not resent her not wanting to spend time with me and be ok with her spending most of her free time at the barn or competing in horse shows. But W has not shown any change of heart and is full steam ahead with the D.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
