It truly is the test of learning to love unconditionally. Now that I'm in this mess and look back, I don't know that I've loved my W unconditionally. Maybe I have and I'm being too hard on myself, or maybe I haven't.
There are many parts of my W, as she is currently constructed, that I don't care for. But she is the mother of my son and the one I chose to partner with for life. So if I am to love her unconditionally I have to love the warts as well as the beautiful parts. And then hope we can work on each other's warts over time.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
